Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
I specialize in both individual and couples counseling, helping clients navigate intimacy, desire, and connection. My practice is enriched by over 20 years of experience — including serving as a Professor in the Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy Program at Lewis and Clark College in Portland.
I provide online sex therapy to clients in Oregon, New York, and Connecticut.
Where would you like to go?
For patients
Individual and couples counseling for intimacy, desire, sexual trauma, infidelity, and more. Book a session or explore the online couples course.
For therapists
CE-approved courses, clinical frameworks, and practical tools for therapists who want to treat sexuality with confidence.
— what I help with
Strengthen your relationship, enhance communication, and resolve conflicts to build a deeper connection.
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Improve intimacy and address sexual challenges with personalized guidance in a safe, supportive environment.
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Reignite passion and address the underlying causes of low desire with expert therapeutic support.
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Heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and restore emotional and physical intimacy at your own pace.
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Overcome anxiety in the bedroom with techniques that build confidence and ease.
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Navigate the complexities of non-monogamous relationships with clarity, communication, and mutual respect.
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Work through past sexual trauma in a compassionate space designed for healing and reclaiming your sexual well-being.
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Client Reviews
“She was able to validate my feelings but also help me work on areas in my life where I could use improvement. I felt confident through the whole process that even though I was struggling, if I worked with her she would help me reach a resolution. I believe my husband felt very comfortable with her as well. Her option to meet on Zoom made it that much more convenient — I could make an appointment at any time during the day. I appreciate all she did for my husband and I.”
Alicia N.
Verified Google Review · August 2024
“Marisol is one of the best therapists my wife or I have ever had the pleasure of working with. She takes the time to get to know each individual, takes notes, and really focuses on getting what each person needs to help make a relationship work. The care and steps she provides to work through issues 100% WORK and I cannot thank her enough.”
Paul B.
Verified Google Review · August 2024
“Marisol has been immensely helpful to me, as both a personal and couples counselor. She is both a phenomenal listener and guide — leading my partner and I to see our issues from new angles, gain insights into ourselves and one another, and get past abstract ideas into concrete goal setting for growth.”
Ginger D.
Verified Google Review · August 2024
“Dr. Westberg is an outstanding therapist with incredible insights. Her non-judgmental, real, and candid approach sets her apart. She has a deep understanding of relationship dynamics that makes her guidance impactful and transformative. Having worked with many therapists, I can confidently say she is in a league of her own.”
Thomas B.
Verified Google Review · September 2024
“Dr. Westberg was really helpful to me during a difficult time. Finding a therapist that is a good match can be difficult and I’ve been through many of them — she is one of the best.”
Ben G.
Verified Google Review · September 2024
“Marisol is a dedicated professional, prepared and attentive during every session. She is an excellent listener.”
Matt H.
Verified Google Review · October 2024
★★★★★ 5.0 on Google
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My step-by-step course addresses desire discrepancy directly from the comfort of your home. Learn practical tools to reconnect and understand each other’s needs — at your own pace, in complete privacy.
Insights & resources
24 hours of video content, case studies, and selected readings. The clinical foundation most graduate programs never provide — built for therapists who are ready to treat sexuality with confidence.
FAQ
Everything you need to know before your first session
Do I need to be in a relationship to attend sex therapy?
Not at all. Many issues relating to sex are rooted in individual histories, experiences, and pain points. Sex therapy is just as valuable for individuals as it is for couples.
What are your fees?
The intake session is $350. Ongoing sessions are $250. All sessions are private pay — a superbill is provided upon request so you can submit for potential reimbursement through your insurance plan. HSA and FSA cards are accepted. A limited number of sliding scale spots may be available — reach out to ask.
Do you take insurance?
Dr. Westberg is an out-of-network provider. Sessions are private pay, and a superbill can be provided upon request for potential reimbursement through your insurance plan.
Do you have a sliding scale?
Please reach out to discuss whether reduced fee options are available. Dr. Westberg is committed to making therapy as accessible as possible.
Can I use my HSA card?
Yes, HSA and FSA cards are generally accepted for therapy sessions. Check with your plan administrator to confirm your specific coverage.
How long are the sessions?
Standard sessions are 50 minutes. Extended sessions may be available depending on your needs — ask about this when scheduling.
Are sessions currently online or in-person?
All sessions are conducted online via a secure telehealth platform. This allows Dr. Westberg to work with clients throughout Connecticut, New York, and Oregon from anywhere with a reliable internet connection.
How long does treatment typically last?
Treatment length varies depending on the issue and the individual. Some clients see meaningful progress in 8 to 12 sessions. Others benefit from longer-term work. This will be discussed collaboratively from the start.
Do I need weekly sessions?
Weekly sessions are recommended at the start of treatment to build momentum and establish a working relationship. As progress is made, sessions can often be spaced out to every other week.
Why doesn’t my wife want me?
Desire discrepancy in relationships is one of the most common issues brought to sex therapy. There are many contributing factors — stress, hormones, relational dynamics, and more. This is exactly the kind of question therapy is designed to help answer and address.