— course for therapists
A practical clinical framework for working with infidelity and betrayal in sex therapy — from identifying the wound to the interventions that help couples heal.
$39
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Lesson
Concise, practical video walking through the full clinical framework
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Techniques
Structured strategies to improve therapeutic outcomes with betrayal
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Learning
Flexible distance learning — complete on your own schedule
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Credit
AASECT & NBCC approved continuing education
— why this matters
Betrayal ruptures trust, distorts identity, and often reactivates old wounds — making it far more than a relationship problem. Therapists who work with infidelity need more than communication tools. They need a framework for the full psychological and sexual impact of what their clients are carrying.
This course gives you that framework — built from Dr. Westberg’s two decades of clinical experience helping couples navigate betrayal and rebuild their sexual and emotional lives.
— the framework
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Recognizing the signs and presentations of sexual abuse in the context of betrayal — what to look for and how to assess carefully in session.
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Supporting clients in naming and understanding their experience — a critical step that shapes the entire course of treatment.
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The specific ways past abuse and betrayal manifest in a couple’s sexual relationship — patterns to recognize and understand clinically.
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How to set clear, appropriate treatment goals when working with betrayal and its sexual consequences — aligning clinical direction with what clients actually need.
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Why standard sex therapy assignments can backfire with betrayal clients — and how to adapt your approach to avoid causing further harm.
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How betrayal and sexual abuse reshape a client’s sense of self and worth — and the clinical work of rebuilding a grounded identity.
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Concrete tools for working with clients who experience trauma responses — flashbacks, dissociation, shutdown — in the context of sexual intimacy.
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The full toolkit of healing interventions — approaches that move clients from survival mode toward genuine recovery and reconnection.
— what you will learn
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Identify how betrayal and sexual abuse present in clients and in the couple’s sexual relationship — before the client can name it themselves.
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Build treatment plans that account for the full complexity of betrayal — not just the relational rupture, but the sexual and identity-level damage underneath.
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Know which standard interventions backfire with betrayal clients — and how to adapt your approach to protect rather than destabilize.
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Address the identity-level damage that betrayal causes — and help clients rebuild a grounded, stable sense of self and sexual worth.
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Use specific interventions for clients who experience flashbacks, dissociation, or shutdown during sexual intimacy — in real time.
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Move clients beyond survival and toward real recovery — using interventions that address the sexual, emotional, and relational dimensions of healing.
— your instructor
I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and Certified Sexologist with over 20 years of experience. I’m a former professor at Lewis and Clark College where I developed and led the Sex Therapy Track.
I created the “Fuck Sex Model” — an innovative framework designed to address desire discrepancies, sexual trauma, and more. This approach has been integral in training hundreds of clinicians to practice effective sex therapy.
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— common questions
Licensed therapists who work with couples or individuals navigating infidelity, betrayal, or the sexual aftermath of relational trauma. No prior sex therapy specialization required.
Betrayal and infidelity frequently reactivate prior sexual trauma or carry their own traumatic weight. This course addresses both together because in clinical practice, they rarely present in isolation.
Self-paced video with structured practice techniques. Instant access after registration, no time limit on completion.
Approved by both AASECT and NBCC for 1 CE credit. A certificate is provided on completion for your records.
30-day money-back guarantee. Contact us within 30 days of purchase for a full refund.
— ready to begin
Eight clinical modules, trauma-informed interventions you can use immediately, and 1 AASECT-approved CE credit — for therapists who want to go beyond the surface of what betrayal does to couples.
One-time payment
$39
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