— course for therapists

Addressing Betrayal:
Infidelity Solutions
for Sex Therapists

AASECT Approved NBCC Approved 1 CE Credit

A practical clinical framework for working with infidelity and betrayal in sex therapy — from identifying the wound to the interventions that help couples heal.

$39

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Dr. Westberg

Video

Lesson

Concise, practical video walking through the full clinical framework

Practice

Techniques

Structured strategies to improve therapeutic outcomes with betrayal

Self-Paced

Learning

Flexible distance learning — complete on your own schedule

1 CE

Credit

AASECT & NBCC approved continuing education

— why this matters

Infidelity is one of the most destabilizing experiences a couple can face — and one of the most complex to treat

Betrayal ruptures trust, distorts identity, and often reactivates old wounds — making it far more than a relationship problem. Therapists who work with infidelity need more than communication tools. They need a framework for the full psychological and sexual impact of what their clients are carrying.

This course gives you that framework — built from Dr. Westberg’s two decades of clinical experience helping couples navigate betrayal and rebuild their sexual and emotional lives.

— the framework

Eight modules — from recognition to repair

01

How to know if there has been sexual abuse

Recognizing the signs and presentations of sexual abuse in the context of betrayal — what to look for and how to assess carefully in session.

02

How to help the client define sexual abuse

Supporting clients in naming and understanding their experience — a critical step that shapes the entire course of treatment.

03

How sexual abuse shows up in the sexual relationship

The specific ways past abuse and betrayal manifest in a couple’s sexual relationship — patterns to recognize and understand clinically.

04

Goals in treatment interventions

How to set clear, appropriate treatment goals when working with betrayal and its sexual consequences — aligning clinical direction with what clients actually need.

05

How common interventions can re-traumatize

Why standard sex therapy assignments can backfire with betrayal clients — and how to adapt your approach to avoid causing further harm.

06

Value and identity stemming from sexual abuse

How betrayal and sexual abuse reshape a client’s sense of self and worth — and the clinical work of rebuilding a grounded identity.

07

Interventions for traumatic responses during sex

Concrete tools for working with clients who experience trauma responses — flashbacks, dissociation, shutdown — in the context of sexual intimacy.

08

Interventions to help heal from sexual abuse

The full toolkit of healing interventions — approaches that move clients from survival mode toward genuine recovery and reconnection.

— what you will learn

Skills you’ll walk away with

01

Recognize Betrayal Trauma

Identify how betrayal and sexual abuse present in clients and in the couple’s sexual relationship — before the client can name it themselves.

02

Set Appropriate Treatment Goals

Build treatment plans that account for the full complexity of betrayal — not just the relational rupture, but the sexual and identity-level damage underneath.

03

Avoid Re-Traumatization

Know which standard interventions backfire with betrayal clients — and how to adapt your approach to protect rather than destabilize.

04

Work With Identity and Worth

Address the identity-level damage that betrayal causes — and help clients rebuild a grounded, stable sense of self and sexual worth.

05

Manage Trauma Responses In-Session

Use specific interventions for clients who experience flashbacks, dissociation, or shutdown during sexual intimacy — in real time.

06

Support Genuine Healing

Move clients beyond survival and toward real recovery — using interventions that address the sexual, emotional, and relational dimensions of healing.

Dr. Westberg
PhD, LMFT AASECT Certified 20+ Years

— your instructor

Hi, I’m Dr. Westberg

I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and Certified Sexologist with over 20 years of experience. I’m a former professor at Lewis and Clark College where I developed and led the Sex Therapy Track.

I created the “Fuck Sex Model” — an innovative framework designed to address desire discrepancies, sexual trauma, and more. This approach has been integral in training hundreds of clinicians to practice effective sex therapy.

— common questions

Frequently asked questions

Who is this course for?+

Licensed therapists who work with couples or individuals navigating infidelity, betrayal, or the sexual aftermath of relational trauma. No prior sex therapy specialization required.

Why does this course address sexual abuse alongside infidelity?+

Betrayal and infidelity frequently reactivate prior sexual trauma or carry their own traumatic weight. This course addresses both together because in clinical practice, they rarely present in isolation.

How is the course delivered?+

Self-paced video with structured practice techniques. Instant access after registration, no time limit on completion.

What CE approvals does this course carry?+

Approved by both AASECT and NBCC for 1 CE credit. A certificate is provided on completion for your records.

Is there a refund policy?+

30-day money-back guarantee. Contact us within 30 days of purchase for a full refund.

— ready to begin

Help your clients move through
betrayal and toward healing

Eight clinical modules, trauma-informed interventions you can use immediately, and 1 AASECT-approved CE credit — for therapists who want to go beyond the surface of what betrayal does to couples.

✓ AASECT Approved ✓ NBCC Approved ✓ 1 CE Credit ✓ 30-Day Guarantee

One-time payment

$39

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