I work with individuals and couples who love each other but feel painfully stuck around intimacy, desire, disconnection, or patterns they don’t fully understand.
If you’ve tried talking, reading, or hoping it would change — and you’re still here — you’re not broken. You’re caught in a pattern most therapy doesn’t address.
One of you wants intimacy. The other feels pressured or distant.
You love each other but avoid sex, touch, or vulnerable conversation.
Desire feels broken, mismatched, or gone.
You’re carrying shame, resentment, or exhaustion neither of you knows how to talk about.
Past trauma, infidelity, or relational wounds are quietly shaping everything.
I don’t treat desire discrepancy as a communication problem or a libido issue. I help you understand the relational pattern underneath — the shame, the avoidance, the unspoken fears, the ways stress and disconnection have quietly taken over.
This is depth work. It’s not about scheduling sex or trying harder. It’s about understanding what’s actually happening and building a new way forward.
Book an intake session. We’ll talk about what’s happening and whether this work is right for you.
If it feels like a fit, we’ll continue meeting weekly or bi-weekly.
All sessions are online.
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