— for couples

One of you feels rejected.
The other feels guilty.
Both of you are exhausted.

24 Hours of Content 10 Worksheets Self-Paced

This intensive online course helps couples bridge the gap in mismatched sexual desire — exploring the root causes, reducing the pressure, and building a more connected, satisfying relationship.

$297

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Couple

24h

Audio

Content

24 hours of audio plus 10 transformative worksheets and exercises

10

Worksheets

& Exercises

Step-by-step structured exercises to do together as a couple

Self-Paced

Access

Online, flexible — complete together at your own pace, from home

12h

Equivalent

Therapy Value

Equivalent to over 12 hours of couples therapy — at a fraction of the cost

— why this course

Mismatched desire is one of the most common — and most painful — problems couples face

When one partner wants sex more than the other, both people suffer. One feels unwanted. The other feels pressured, guilty, or broken. The same argument keeps happening. The distance grows.

This course was built for exactly that dynamic. It doesn’t just give you information — it walks you through the work, together, step by step. Think of it as an intensive couples therapy experience you can do from home, on your own schedule, without the cost of weekly sessions or a retreat.

— course outline

Ten modules — the complete journey

01

Understanding the Different Types of Sexual Desire

Spontaneous vs. responsive desire — why your differences don’t mean something is broken.

02

Consequences of Mismatched Desire

How desire discrepancy creates distance, resentment, and cycles that are hard to break without the right tools.

03

The Role of Pressure

Why pressure kills desire — and how to dismantle the cycle that’s making things worse.

04

Becoming Zen About Sex

How stepping back strategically creates space for desire to return naturally.

05

Bringing Back The Past

Reconnecting with what drew you together — and using that foundation to rebuild intimacy now.

06

Expressing Needs and Wants Sexually

How to say what you actually want — and hear what your partner wants — without it becoming a negotiation.

07

The Role of Expectations

Where expectations come from, how they shape your experience, and how to redefine them together.

08

How to Communicate About Sex

Practical tools for having the conversations that matter most — without them turning into the same fight.

09

Emotional Regulation and How to Do It

Managing the feelings that come up — rejection, frustration, shame — so they stop driving the dynamic.

10

Healing Interfering Old Wounds

How past experiences shape your present intimacy — and the work of healing them so they stop getting in the way.

— what makes this special

Built differently from the start

01

Step-by-step, effective solutions

Every lesson is practical and proven. The goal isn’t insight — it’s actual change in how you relate to each other.

02

A holistic approach

Desire discrepancy has many layers — emotional, relational, historical. This course addresses all of them, not just the surface.

03

Positive and empowering

Growth through strength, not fear. This course is designed to minimize shame and help you both feel capable of change.

04

Marathon potential

Work through it gradually over weeks, or commit to an intensive push — the course works either way. You set the pace.

Dr. Westberg
PhD, LMFT AASECT Certified 20+ Years

— your instructor

Hi, I’m Dr. Westberg

I’m a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and Certified Sexologist with over 20 years of experience working with couples and individuals on the full range of sexual and relational issues.

I’ve seen the pattern this course addresses hundreds of times. One partner pulls away. The other pushes harder. Both feel alone in it. The good news is that this dynamic is predictable — and it’s changeable.

I designed this course to give you the same tools I use in my practice — so you can do the work together, on your own terms.

— what people say

Reviews from course participants

★★★★★

“I genuinely enjoyed your approach and informative videos that really break down the different elements of sex therapy as someone only just getting started in the field of MFT.”

Course Participant

★★★★★

“Everything you said resonated so much! I took a lot of notes and feel empowered. Thank you so much!”

Course Participant

★★★★★

“As a presenter, I felt you were very grounded, down to earth, knowledgeable and easy to watch — which says a lot! I really appreciate your humaneness.”

Workshop Attendee

— common questions

Frequently asked questions

Who is this course for?+

Couples experiencing desire discrepancy — where one partner wants sex more than the other. Whether you’re in a sexless marriage, stuck in the same argument, or just feeling distant, this course was built for where you are.

How is this different from couples therapy?+

This course covers the equivalent of over 12 hours of couples therapy — at a fraction of the cost, on your own schedule, from home. It doesn’t replace therapy for complex situations, but for many couples it’s exactly what they need to break the pattern.

Do we do this together or separately?+

Together. The course is designed as a shared experience — you listen, reflect, and work through the exercises as a couple. Some modules include individual reflection, but the overall journey is collaborative.

How long does it take?+

You can move through it gradually over several weeks or commit to an intensive push — the course is fully self-paced with no deadlines. Many couples do one module per week together.

Is there a refund policy?+

30-day money-back guarantee. Contact us within 30 days of purchase for a full refund.

— ready to change things

Stop having the same fight.
Start having a different conversation.

Ten modules, 24 hours of content, 10 worksheets — everything you need to understand the dynamic and start changing it, together.

✓ 24 Hours of Content ✓ 10 Worksheets ✓ Self-Paced ✓ 30-Day Guarantee

$297

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