Sex Therapist in Oregon
1220 SW Morrison St Suite 935, Portland, OR 97205
Dr. Marisol G. Westberg, PhD, LMFT
I offer sex therapy and couples counseling throughout Oregon — Portland, Salem, Eugene, Bend, and beyond — via a fully confidential telehealth practice. With over 20 years of clinical experience, I help individuals and couples navigate desire discrepancy, sexual trauma, performance anxiety, infidelity, and intimacy concerns.
What to Expect
A safe space to explore what's really going on
Sex therapy goes beyond traditional couples counseling by addressing sexual concerns directly — not dancing around them. I work with the emotional, relational, and physical layers that shape your intimate life: the patterns you've developed, the wounds you carry, and the disconnection you feel. Whether it's desire, trust, trauma, or communication, we explore what's actually getting in the way and build a path forward together.
I begin by exploring why you perceive an issue as problematic, highlighting the impact of societal norms on sex and sexuality. It's vital for changes to stem from personal desire rather than societal pressures.
Addressing sexual issues involves considering relational dynamics, personal history, and contextual factors, with a focus on emotional, cognitive, behavioral, relational, and contextual changes. I utilize various therapeutic approaches, including EFT, Parts Work, and Trauma-Focused therapy. As a sex and body positive therapist, I support diverse sexual identities and practices, affirming queer, poly, and kink orientations.
— what I help with
Specialized support for your
most intimate challenges
Couples Counseling
Strengthen your relationship, enhance communication, and resolve conflicts to build a deeper connection.
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Sex Therapy
Improve intimacy and address sexual challenges with personalized guidance in a safe, supportive environment.
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Low Sexual Desire
Reignite passion and address the underlying causes of low desire with expert therapeutic support.
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Infidelity Recovery
Heal from betrayal, rebuild trust, and restore emotional and physical intimacy at your own pace.
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Performance Anxiety
Overcome anxiety in the bedroom with techniques that build confidence and ease.
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Navigating Non-Monogamy
Navigate the complexities of non-monogamous relationships with clarity, communication, and mutual respect.
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Sexual Trauma
Work through past sexual trauma in a compassionate space designed for healing and reclaiming your sexual well-being.
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Client Reviews
What Clients Say
“She was able to validate my feelings but also help me work on areas in my life where I could use improvement. I felt confident through the whole process that even though I was struggling, if I worked with her she would help me reach a resolution. I believe my husband felt very comfortable with her as well. Her option to meet on Zoom made it that much more convenient — I could make an appointment at any time during the day. I appreciate all she did for my husband and I.”
Alicia N.
Verified Google Review · August 2024
“Marisol is one of the best therapists my wife or I have ever had the pleasure of working with. She takes the time to get to know each individual, takes notes, and really focuses on getting what each person needs to help make a relationship work. The care and steps she provides to work through issues 100% WORK and I cannot thank her enough.”
Paul B.
Verified Google Review · August 2024
“Dr. Westberg is incredibly knowledgeable, compassionate, and professional. She created a safe space where I felt comfortable discussing very personal topics. Her guidance has been transformative and I highly recommend her to anyone seeking support.”
Sarah M.
Verified Google Review · July 2024
“Working with Dr. Westberg has been life-changing. She has a rare ability to make you feel completely at ease while also challenging you to grow. My partner and I are in such a better place because of her work with us.”
James R.
Verified Google Review · June 2024
“I was nervous about starting therapy but Dr. Westberg made the process feel natural and safe from the very first session. Her telehealth setup is seamless and her approach is warm, direct, and effective. I've recommended her to several friends already.”
Michelle T.
Verified Google Review · May 2024
“Dr. Westberg helped my husband and me navigate a really difficult period in our relationship with patience and expertise. We came in feeling hopeless and left with real tools and a renewed sense of connection. She is exceptional at what she does.”
Karen L.
Verified Google Review · April 2024
How to Choose a Sex Therapist
What To Look For In A Sex Therapist in Oregon
When looking for a sex therapist, prioritize finding a couples therapist with a specialization in sex therapy. Training in couples therapy is crucial for effectively addressing sexual issues within relationships. Exercise caution when considering sex coaches, as they may focus primarily on behavioral and cognitive aspects without fully addressing complex relationship dynamics. Inquire about the therapist's experience with relational trauma and their approach to sexual desire discrepancies. Optimal therapy should encompass behavior, cognition, relational and contextual factors, as well as past traumas.
Concerns I Work With
No Topic Is Off Limits
My Approach
Techniques and Theories I Use
Attachment-Based Therapy
Polyvagal & Somatic Therapy
Acceptance & Commitment Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS)
EMDR Trauma Therapy
Gottman Couples Counseling
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Struggling with different
desire levels?My step-by-step course addresses desire discrepancy directly from the comfort of your home. Learn practical tools to reconnect and understand each other’s needs — at your own pace, in complete privacy.
New Book
The Intimacy Gap →
When one of you wants more — and both of you are suffering
Desire discrepancy is one of the most common patterns in long-term relationships — and one of the most misunderstood. This book explains why it happens, what keeps it going, and what genuinely helps. Written by Dr. Westberg from years of working with couples navigating exactly this.
Invest in Connection
Unique date ideas in Portland
Therapy builds the foundation — but connection also lives in the experiences you share outside the office.
Oregon Areas I Serve
Providing Sex Therapy Across Oregon
I work with clients across Oregon via secure telehealth — no commute, no waiting room. Wherever you are in the state, we can meet online.
FAQ
Questions on Sex Therapy in Oregon
Everything you need to know before your first session
No. Sex therapy is just as valuable for individuals as it is for couples. Many people come on their own to work through personal concerns around desire, trauma, identity, performance anxiety, or past experiences that are affecting their intimate life.
The initial consultation is $350. Ongoing sessions are $250. Payment is due at the time of the session.
I am an out-of-network provider and do not bill insurance directly. However, I can provide a superbill upon request, which you may submit to your insurance company for potential reimbursement depending on your out-of-network benefits.
A limited number of sliding scale spots are available for clients who demonstrate financial need. Please reach out directly to discuss whether this is an option for your situation.
Yes. HSA and FSA cards are accepted as a form of payment. Please check with your plan provider to confirm that therapy services are covered under your specific account.
All sessions are 50 minutes.
All sessions are conducted via secure telehealth. This allows me to work with clients anywhere in Oregon — Portland, Salem, Eugene, Bend, and beyond — without either of us leaving home.
Treatment length varies depending on the concern and your goals. Some clients see meaningful progress in 8 to 12 sessions. Others choose to continue longer for deeper relational or trauma work. We will discuss timelines openly as we go.
Weekly sessions are recommended early in treatment — they help build momentum, establish trust, and create consistency when the work is just beginning. That said, therapy should also be financially sustainable. Once we have established a good foundation, sessions can move to bi-weekly or whatever frequency works best for your life and budget. We will figure that out together.