Hello, I’m Dr. Westberg, a sexologist and sex therapist based in New York City. I am a couple’s therapist specializing in sex therapy with qualifications including board certification in sexology (ACS), sex education (AASECT), and New York State licensed couples counseling (LMFT).
My practice aids individuals and couples with various sexual issues, emphasizing a comprehensive approach that challenges conventional views on sex and incorporates trauma-informed care. With over two decades of experience, I aim to help clients achieve their sexual and relational goals, promoting shame-free, healthy sexual relationships.
What is Sex Therapy?
Sex therapy goes beyond modifying behaviors and thoughts; it confronts widespread myths and adopts a comprehensive strategy. A crucial aspect involves aiding individuals in recognizing and managing emotional triggers and past traumas, as achieving significant change requires addressing these deeper emotional layers.
What is A Sexologist?
A sexologist is an expert in human sexuality who helps individuals and couples address sexual concerns and improve their intimate lives. Whether you’re facing challenges like low desire, sexual dysfunction, or relationship issues, a clinical sexologist can provide personalized guidance and support. They specialize in counseling, offering a safe and non-judgmental space to explore your sexual goals and concerns. Sexologists also bring knowledge from fields like psychology, biology, and sociology, helping clients navigate the complex emotional and physical aspects of sexuality.
It’s important to know that while anyone can call themselves a sexologist, certified professionals typically have a master’s degree and specialized training in sex therapy. Sex therapists are licensed professionals who focus on treating sexual issues within a therapeutic setting, while sex coaches and sexologists may not require a license but can still offer valuable insights and advice. When seeking help, look for a certified sexologist through recognized organizations like the American College of Sexologists (ACS) or the World Association of Sex Coaches (WASC). Whether you’re looking for therapy, coaching, or educational support, a qualified sexologist can help you achieve a healthier, more fulfilling sexual life.
Couples/Marital Issues in Sex Therapy
In sex therapy, addressing relational dynamics, communication, conflict, and emotional wounds is essential, with couples therapy playing a key role. This integrative approach is vital for effectively managing sexual issues. Utilizing various couples counseling methods allows for a comprehensive treatment strategy. For those in NYC seeking deeper insight into couples therapy and its impact on sexual health, further information is available to explore.
What to Expect From Sex Therapy
Sex or Intimacy Therapy integrates the principles of individual or couples therapy with a specific emphasis on sexual matters. It addresses a range of sexual issues such as performance anxiety, infidelity, non-monogamy, sexual compulsion,discrepancies in sexual desire, and sexual trauma providing a comprehensive approach to improving sexual health and intimacy.
Therapeutic Modalities I Offer
Acceptance & Commitment Therapy
Attachment Based Therapy
Polyvagal Theory & Somatic Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Trauma Therapy
Informed by Queer Theory, Transformative Justice, Feminist and Intersectionality
Trans-Affirming Care; Informed Consent Model (WPATH and ICATH considerations)
Gottman Informed Couples Counseling
Wheel of Consent (Betty Martin)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
What Is Therapy Like With Me?
Understanding the root cause of how you view your sexual issue is pivotal in my role as a sex therapist, given the strong cultural influences on sexual norms and values. My approach is multifaceted, using various therapeutic techniques to address the emotional, cognitive, and relational aspects tied to sexual concerns, ensuring changes align with your genuine desires. I prioritize creating a supportive space, embracing all identities and lifestyles, and promoting a sex-positive perspective.
Common Sexual Concerns
Reduced Desire For Sex
Infidelity/Betrayal
Difficulty Becoming Sexually Aroused
Erectile Issues
Difficulties With Orgasms
Rapid Orgasms
Communicating About Sex With Partners
Improving Boring Or Routine Sex Lives
Partners With Different Degrees Or Types of Sexual Desire
Concerns About What Turns You On or Who Turns You On
Being Sexual With A Partner /A History of Trauma Or Sexual Abuse
Sexual Addiction
Out of Control Or Compulsive Sexual Behavior
Problems With Body Image
Trouble Experiencing Pleasure
Sexual Pleasure Or Functioning/ Physical Challenges Or Chronic Illness
Concerns about your sexual orientation or preference
Gender transitions
Alternative relationship styles
Fetishes
Navigating Non-Monogamy
Sexual Violence
How to Choose a Sex Therapist in New York City
When searching for a sex therapist in New York City, prioritize finding one with expertise in couples therapy and sex therapy to ensure comprehensive assistance. Exercise caution with sex coaches, as they might not address complex relationship dynamics thoroughly. Important questions for potential therapists include their experience with relational trauma and methods for managing sexual desire discrepancies. Opt for therapists who employ a holistic approach, covering behavioral, cognitive, relational, and contextual elements, alongside healing from past traumas.