Marisol G. WestbergInterventions Flirting Favorites - Important Information For Increasing Sexual Desire. Flirting is just someone saying, “I like you.” There are so many ways to let someone know you like them.What are your favorite ways of having someone tell you they like you?Think about all the times people have flirted with you. What are your favorite ways? Write them down and share them with your partner.After sharing, remember how your partner understands or wants to be told someone likes them.What are your favorite ways to tell people you like them? Write this down and share it with your partner.Remember that when your partner does something from this list, they tell you they like you.The idea is that both of you will work on telling the other person that you like them in the way they want to be told and how you want to tell.